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My glass is always empty

I’ve realized that my glass is always empty and I seek the company of a guy to fill it. When I’m dating a guy, he’s all I think about and all I want. And my empty glass gets filled with all that is him and then I feel complete. I get completely wrapped up in him, and who he is, that I am a mere reflection or attachment of him and not my own person. If he and I are apart, my glass starts to empty and I long to fill it again with him.

But why do I long for someone else to fill my glass and why is it even empty?

I can only attribute the state of my glass to the many changes in my life. When I decided to moved to the Netherlands, I wanted to change everything that I was, do the things that make me happy and not what was expected of me. I’ve lived a lie for so many years that I don’t even know who I am. I am on a quest to find who I am and the things that make me happy. I want my glass to be full with all the things that I love to do before I seek someone else.

The principle behind these quotes is what fuel my journey…

You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.” – Author Unknown

He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.” – Benjamin Franklin

Living life without self-courtship has a high cost. We risk losing our sensuality, our senses, precious moments with those we love, our smile, and our joy. When we romance ourselves, it prepares a fertile garden for a profusion of love to bloom in all areas of our lives. We regain passion and now becomes a moment not to be missed!” – Corrie Woods




I don’t believe that astrology can predict the future or tell about someone’s nature but this is true!


Facebook pictures and relationships

I had a conversation with two friends the other night and they thought that me having pictures of my ex-boyfriend in my Facebook pictures is a bad thing. They thought that any future boyfriend would have a problem with his partner having pictures of their exes on their Facebook (the same goes for Myspace). I don’t really see any harm in having the pictures there. It was good times in my life and I posted the picture at the time of the event…why should I remove the pictures now that we are no longer in a relationship? Especially when I don’t have any bad feelings for my exes.

So they indicated that they would have removed the pictures from public view and keep it on their computer, if it was them. But how much worse is that? Having pictures of your computer, hidden away…that sounds like a far worse relationship crime. And if they weren’t per-say ‘hidden away’ and the partner knew about them then what is the use of having to take down pictures of an ex when the relationship is all over. Seems like a whole of hassle for nothing.

My contention is that the pictures of the ex should stay up and if my future partner has questions or doubts of who he is or my feelings or intentions of the pictures then a conversation needs to occur. Open and honest communication is going to be the key to working through any problems and if there isn’t communication but instead assumptions then the saying is true of what happens when we assume.

Tré Sweeney…..

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